Being single happy and above all happy to be so is possible: here are the things to keep in mind to enjoy the most free, light and comfortable sentimental state that exists
We spend most of our lives looking for a sweetheart with which to share it, without understanding that the tastiest one is the half we have inside : our core, in short.
Only those who are single believers consider the maxim "no man is an island" exactly as Ragantoer Fantozzi considered La battleship Potemkin .
Perhaps the poet John Donne, to whom we owe the Cit . above, he never tried to go to Ibiza alone because, if he did, he would go back to those words.
Although human nature is made strange and often leads us to look for what we need outside of ourselves, all we need is in our happy island , the one where we sometimes need to take refuge at least for a while when we're not in Ibiza having a good time.
Here are 10 benefits to keep in mind to be single consciously happy to be single .
Singles are usually thinner than paired
A little because they have to keep in shape because they are potentially always on the hunt, partly because they lack the solidarity of the typical sgarro of couples who eat whatever they are even looking at the weather, the fact is that those who do not have a sweetie do not even have the well more bitter half of the fat than the one who is mated.
Who is single is usually greeted by name at the entrance of the gym , habitué as it is, while the engaged / married couple rarely see a place for fitness, preferring the All You Can Eat restaurant where they can spend what they think is a romantic evening (by candlelight but not with the light of reason, if the goal is to eat as much as possible).
Listen to yourself, get to know each other better
Without a partner who continues to talk to you below , above, to the right and even to the left, you will finally be able to hear that voice that seemed dormant in the last few years of amorous visits: your inner self .
You chat amiably with him without worrying about using the right words, without fearing that you will miss a "I see you fat" and without having to justify yourself in a loop.
You will see that it will be the best company ever experienced so far.
Have more time for friends
In addition to ego, friends are also more considered.
Finally free from the "I neglect you to be with your friends!" glimmer of freedom .
Other than Leopardi: if you have a hedge in front of you that hinders you and does not allow you to go out with friends, potala or even uproot it and go! After all, we all know that Leopardi's hedge was actually called Silvia.
Greater mental serenity
It would seem scientifically proven (as is every sentence that begins with a conditional time) that the mens sana live more in the body of those who are single .
Who is not single but has a faith on his finger and, what is even more pounding in the mind, children in tow, can almost never be said to be completely relaxed.
The mind will never be clear of thoughts because the responsibilities are greater, both those towards the spouse and especially those towards the offspring.
Who does not have sweet halves that steal his blankets at night or sweet little children who steal his sleep, can certainly enjoy a much lighter spirit . And a markedly deeper sleep.
Cultivate one's passions
If your partner does not like your passion or, worse still, your partner feels that you may have passions, it will be difficult for you to continue playing soccer on Thursday nights or going to street markets. 'antiques at the weekend.
All this, however, does not apply to the singletudine regulation. On the contrary: the ' being single does not provide absolutely no regulation .
You can do everything in your head at any time.
From taking a plane on the fly to going to see a show outside the door to skipping a meal or doing two in a row, you won't have to justify your choices to anyone, let alone your travels.
Cultivate your passions with the best thumb that exists in nature: not the green one but the free one !
Travel alone
In addition to not having to report to anyone about airport transfers and transfers, even the journey itself will be a fantastic journey only with itself !
One of the most beautiful things a human being can experience is just traveling light , so light as to have little luggage but above all a few balls to the foot .
Without venture partners, the adventure will be much more exciting and the experience will be fully savored, as it is devoid of distorting sharing substrates: how many times you would have liked to enjoy a sunset without someone at your side saying “Toh, what a beautiful sunset ".
Enjoy the good times without anyone pointing out "Toh, what a beautiful moment!"
Going to the movies alone
After traveling solo, one of the other highly beneficial experiences is to go to the cinema or, in general, watch a movie on your own .
Also in this case, you can enjoy the whole adventure on the screen without someone standing next to emphasize its strengths and weaknesses.
And above all, without having to ask the typical question of the not very attentive partner, the one who - after 72 minutes of film - sees the protagonist in the foreground on the screen and asks you "And who is he?".
Enjoy a candlelit dinner with yourself
Always for the vein "Enjoying the good things in life alone" , after the art of arranging on the road and the seventh art, it is up to the tastiest canvas there is: the culinary one .
Enjoying a delicacy without your table being occupied by another person will be totally different than doing it in the company of diners .
Your taste buds will be able to anatomize every olfactory note, the sapidity or the sweetness of any secret ingredient with which the chef has mixed the dish.
But even the kebab will be much, much, much better, especially without someone telling you, "Can I eat your fries too?"
Don't always have to justify yourself
One of the most unnerving practices of married / married couples is the continuous need to justify themselves .
A true triathlon of multi - justifications that sometimes even turns into the "I'll explain" Olympics .
Singles, on the other hand, can enjoy this spectacular show for them at the sidelines.
It is every day on the bill, just go to any restaurant, subway car, bar, Spa or shop: you will certainly find a pair of mattaders who will go crazy for a message found in his or her cell phone.
Keep the order or disorder you want
On the agenda, in the menu of the single-portion delicacies , there is also the main dish of living the house (as well as the passenger compartment of the car, to say) as one believes and wants.
Maniacal order or crazy disorder , minimal interior design or bazaar style of overflowing ones: those who live alone can choose as they see fit and do it. Point.
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